We all get attracted to something or to someone
now and then. It’s a wonderful feeling, makes us happy, good for health, most of
the times. But the more fascinating thing about attraction is the pattern. There
is always a pattern, some particular common points in all those things which
attract us. Let’s discuss the human attraction. We all have our type, type of
persons who pull our attention towards them even in the crowd. Give it a
thought. Why only them, not others or everyone?
This happens because of our mind. Mind is such a
tricky puzzle. Well we were talking about pattern. As we grow up, we experience things and
that’s how our nature got build up. These are the experiences which make us who
we are today and how we would be tomorrow. Talking of nature? Yes and our
nature includes our choices. So we have a particular pattern of choices, things
which draw our attention and make us feel like to have them. Some people get
attracted to intelligent, successful people. Some like innocent and kind people.
Some like tall some like short. Some get fascinated by creative people and some
get attracted to practical people. Even some people get attracted to thieves
and thugs. Each one has his/her type in his/her head. From looks to nature each
choice is stored in mind and our mind act according to that. There is a friend
of mine who gets attracted to charming, funny, with a good sense of dressing
style, helpful nature type of guys. There is another friend of mine who likes
calm and mature persons.
See the patterns also
changes with the time because of our experiences with the people. It’s not
always the same. So it is good if our pattern is good and safe. By safe I mean,
it should have good people description. And let’s also wish that our pattern
takes us to the person whose pattern fulfils our description, otherwise it
won’t work out long with that person. So be wise because we know what leads to
disputes and then to silence.